Build the family- EXCITING THINGS ARE HAPPENING!!!

Build the Family. Win the War. is nearly finished. The edits are wrapping up, the structure is solid, and every chapter is being refined not to impress, but to serve. If this book carries any power, it’s not because I wrote it well—it’s because God pressed it deep into my soul before a single word hit the page. I’ve been the blade in His hand. And the scalpel doesn’t autograph a healed wound.

What’s happening now is both simple and serious. I’m preparing proposals for publishers—not to chase influence, but to be a faithful steward. If the door opens, I’ll walk through it. If it doesn’t, I’ll build another. The message doesn’t change. The burden doesn’t lighten. It just means the path forward will look a little different. God has been faithful every step of the way, and I’m not about to start trusting my own strength now.

Early copies are in the hands of a few trusted men—leaders, pastors, and brothers who know firsthand the weight of fatherhood and the battlefield we’re on. I didn’t ask them for applause. I asked them to test it. If it’s true, if it’s useful, if it honors the Lord and equips the man—then let it go forward with their blessing. If not, back to the fire it goes.

For those wondering where all this came from—it didn’t come out of ease. It came out of conviction. God lit something in me as I approached the season of fatherhood. I didn’t want to drift into it. I wanted to build toward it. I’ve seen too many men react to crisis instead of prepare for calling. This book is a line in the sand—a way to step into fatherhood proactively, under God’s design, not culture’s confusion. It’s not just a message to others—it’s a mirror I’ve had to stare into myself.

Here’s the plan as it stands:
Lord willing, the digital version will release Christmas 2025.

The audiobook, recorded in my own voice, will follow a few months later.

And by Father’s Day 2026, whether published through a house or pressed through my own hands, the print edition will be in the world, accompanied by a companion workbook.

That timeline isn’t arbitrary. I believe God has appointed it.

If you've been praying, thank you. If you've been waiting, thank you. If you've felt the same stirring in your gut about what's at stake in our homes, churches, and culture—then stay close. This isn’t mine. I’m just delivering what I’ve been given. And by God’s grace, it will land exactly where it needs to.